Last year I sucked it up and went to my first movie alone. I admit it wasn't easy, but in the end it was hardly a big deal. Each time you do it, it gets a little bit easier. One time I
purposefully arrived a few minutes late, so it would already be dark in the theater, and another time I pretended to text the until the movie started so it would maybe look like I was meeting someone.
I am
evidently growing up, either that or I have become a complete loner. Yesterday I went to the movies -alone- and it did not bother me in the least. I arrived sickeningly early,
because well that's what I do. I can't help it that I enjoy watching all of the behind the scenes stuff they put on before. Then it didn't make me the least bit uncomfortable when people would come in, look at me, then move on to other rows. After all it's not like they were really looking at me, more looking at the seating situation.
Eventually a couple came and sat directly behind me. Not that I can blame them I was sitting dead center (which is an improvement I used to always sit off to the side when I would go alone, but no more - I sit where I want to sit, company or not). They were quite chatty and
quite loud, I could not help but listen to them. Their Christmas plans were not very exciting, but after a while they started discussing me. Yes that's right, they were talking about me, or "the girl in front of us." They were trying to decided if I came alone or if I was meeting someone. Last year this would have made me insanly uncomfortable, maybe even make me teary eyed. But seeing as I am such a muture, lonerish adult now I found it
quite funny.
They analized the way I was sitting the fact that I had coffee, everything about me. Here where their final decisions: I had set my purse on the seat next to me, which led the women to
believe that I was meeting someone there. But I did not have my phone out which led the man to
believe that I was there alone.
I think she owes him dinner. At least those were the
initial parameters of the bet.